Wahine / whaea: Ka whakatuwherahia e Astrid Veillon te tautohetohe

I roto i to pukapuka "Nine Months in the Life of a Woman", ka korero poto koe mo to whakamahi i te whakamutua o te wa hapu. He aha to tuunga e pa ana ki tenei tika whakatuma?

Ka taea anake e matou te tiaki i te tika ki te whakamutu i te wa hapu. Kei te mohio ahau i te rautau XNUMX, he tino taboo te materoto. He maha nga tangata kua whakatau i ahau. Kare o tatou mana ki te whakawa i te wahine kua materoto.

I mua i te 18 o oku tau, he ngoikore ahau. I taua wa, he tamariki tonu ahau, kare e taea te hapu. I pa ki ahau, engari kaore koe e eke ki runga. Ehara i te tikanga mo te whakawhanaungatanga, ehara hoki i te whakamatautau ki te "kite i tona ahua".

I te rua o nga wa, 30 oku tau. I pirangi ahau he tamaiti i taku haputanga. Engari i mohio ahau ehara i te papa tika. I korero ahau ki nga tangata katoa mo taua mea, katahi ka pa te mataku. Katahi ahau ka whakaaro mo te tamaiti me te oranga ka hoatu e ahau ki a ia, ehara i te mea he oranga mona. I tino mohio ahau ki aku mahi. I mate te papa e toru marama i muri mai.

He aha koe i whakaae ai ko koe te kuia o nga "Matua tautohetohe"?

Ua ani mai o Gaëlle, te hoê o te mau papai vea no te vea Parents, ia horoa vau i te hoê “carte blanche” no te hoê vea. I pai te haere. I tua atu, i whakaae ahau i runga i te harikoa ki tana tono kia noho hei kaitautoko mo nga "Maatua tautohetohe". He tino whakamere ratou, a mena ka taea e au te whakapuaki i aku wheako, i runga i te ngakau mahaki…

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