He aha koe e kore ai e korero ki o hoa mahi: "Kei te hiahia ahau ki a koe…"

Peneia‘e ua hau atu i te hoê taime to outou iho haamataraa i ta outou aniraa aore ra ta outou ohipa na roto i te mau parau “Te hinaaro nei au ia oe,” i roto iho â râ i te mau aparauraa e te mau taata i raro a‘e. Aue, ehara tenei i te huarahi pai ki te tuku kawenga me te mahi tahi me o hoa mahi. Na ko te aha.

Ma tenei ka kore e taea te whakahoki urupare tika

E ai ki te kaimätai hinengaro whakahaere a Laura Gallagher, i te wa e korero ana ki tetahi hoa mahi, ki raro ranei me nga kupu "Kei te hiahia ahau ki a koe," karekau he waahi mo te korerorero i roto i te korerorero. Engari, tera pea, kaore te kaikorero e whakaae ki to ota. Akene kare pea ia e whai taima, engari, he nui ake nga korero ka nui ake te mohio me te mohio ki te whakaoti pai ake i te raru. Engari karekau e hoatu he waahi ki te tangata ki te korero (ahakoa ka mahi pohehe pea tatou).

Engari i te "Kei te hiahia ahau ki a koe," ko te tohutohu a Gallagher ki te huri ki tetahi hoa mahi me nga kupu: "Kei te pirangi ahau kia mahia e koe tenei me tera. He aha to whakaaro?” ranei “I oma matou ki tenei raruraru. Kei a koe etahi whiringa mo te whakaotinga?”. He mea tino nui tenei i roto i nga keehi e pa ana nga urupare mai i tetahi kaimahi ki te hua katoa. Kaua e whakatau i to whakatau ki te kaikorero, tuatahi kia korero ia.

Kaore e hoatu he waahi ki te hoa mahi ki te whakaaro nui.

"Ko te mahi e hoatu ana e koe ki te kaimahi he wa, he rauemi. Ko te tikanga ka pa ki te rere o te ra mahi o te tangata,” te whakamarama a Loris Brown, he tohunga mo te matauranga pakeke. "Engari i te wa e tohatoha ana nga mahi ki nga hoa mahi, he maha nga mea kaore e whai whakaaro ki o raatau kaupapa matua me te pehea e pa ai te mahi hou ki te whakatinanatanga o nga mea katoa.

I tua atu, "Kei te hiahia ahau ki a koe" e pa ana ki a maatau me o maatau kaupapa matua. He ahua whakama, he kino te ahua. Kia taea ai e nga kaimahi te whakatutuki i o hiahia, he mea nui ki te whakahihiri i a raatau me te whakaatu ki a raatau ka pehea te paanga o te otinga o te mahi ki nga hua katoa."

I tua atu, ko te nuinga o tatou he hiahia nui mo te whakawhitiwhiti korero me nga hononga hapori, a ko te nuinga o nga tangata e pai ana ki te mahi i tetahi mea e pai ai to raatau roopu hapori katoa. “A faaite e mea faufaa ta oe ohipa no te maitai o te taata, e na te taata e rave ma te aau tae,” o ta te taata aravihi ïa i tapao.

Mena ka aro mai o hoa mahi ki o tono, whakaarohia: tera pea i he koe i mua — hei tauira, i tukino koe i o raatau wa, kaore ranei koe i whakamahi i nga hua o a raatau mahi.

Hei karo i tenei, ngana ki te whakaatu i nga wa katoa e hiahia ana koe ki te awhina. Hei tauira: “I te ra i muri apopo i te 9:00 i te ata ka whai whakaaturanga ahau ki te tari o te kaihoko. Ka mihi au ki a koe mena ka tukuna e koe te purongo apopo i mua i te 17:00 kia taea e au te tirotiro me te taapiri i nga korero hou ki te whakaaturanga. He aha to whakaaro, ka whai hua?

A, ki te whiriwhiri koe i nga whiringa mo te whakatakoto i to tono, ako ranei, i ia keehi me tuu koe ki te waahi o tera taha - ka hiahia koe ki te awhina?